Sometimes love doesn't make its way in to all our nooks and crannies when we are little. Sometimes pieces deprived of love grow bigger than the love-filled pieces. Its okay. People do the best they can loving others... and when they are unable to love fully it is because they have pieces inside of themselves that have missed out on love. A beautiful gift of being an adult is that we can find those pieces inside of us that are long overdue for love and give it to ourselves! Some of us may be trying to get other people to love us whole but the only way to wholeness is through radical self love!